milestones

Happy Birthday Anthony. Today you turn 18 and become an adult in the eyes of the world. Your mom and I are very proud of you and all you have done so far, and we have great hopes for you in the future. I still remember holding you in my arms the day you were born, screaming for all you were worth, making your presence known. My hands trembled a little as I cut the umbilical cord and spoke your name for the first time. We discussed your name for a long time - we wanted something strong, but did not want to name you after anyone in the family, lest we get besieged from either side. So, we took your name from a book I had read, the character being the sworn protector of the future king of an empire. Fitting, since you spend much of your time watching your younger brothers!

As you grew and matured, your personality began to show...impulsive, excitable, intelligent, and very VERY funny. It was only natural that in your final years of high school that you joined the theater and improv groups, and became one of their stars. I can only hope you continue sharing your gifts with others.

We are equally proud of you becoming an Eagle Scout. In a world where many young people turn to drugs, violence, and apathy, you have become a leader of others, sharing your knowledge of what is right/wrong with younger boys, becoming an example of how to do the right thing.

Yes, we have our differences - all people do. You and I butt heads more times than I would like. But know that we are always here for you and will support you as best we can.

Congratulations son. We love you.